SaM97
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2 years ago
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Were you spanked when you were a kid?

Just had a conversation with some coworkers and they had some interesting stories growing up and being disciplined by their parents. Most of them were spanked. One of them even had a teacher who spanked them at a regular basis. (Asian school btw). So were you one of those kids who were disciplined through spanking?
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2 years ago
I was spanked when I was a kid and I'm darn proud of it. It sure put me straight that if I did anything bad, someone would punish me.

Though I'm still pissed that my teacher spanked me for constantly asking to go to the bathroom because my parents failed to tell my teacher I was drinking so much herbal tea.
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2 years ago
Yeah I'm happy I was too. The kids I watch get away with WAAAAAAAY to much these days. They are just getting brattier and more spoiled without being punished
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2 years ago
The corner DOES not work.
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2 years ago
Feather duster handle to the left palm of my hand so I could still write with my right. Dang my mom's smart.

Just to add, I think they've gone overboard with this whole child abuse thing.

Parent: Go to your room.
Kid: OK.

Kid plays video games.
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2 years ago
Going to my room sounds like a reward for me. It means I won't have to do any exercise.
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2 years ago
there's really just no suitable way to raise a child w/o spanking them.
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2 years ago
Spare the rod; spoil the child.
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2 years ago
you must not have children ;-)
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2 years ago
Don't assume ;)
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2 years ago
sure did. kids need a little spanking in their life.
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2 years ago
no, my parents raised me with the principle that people are not for hitting, and that there are more ways to get your point across without spanking.
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2 years ago
I was spanked and turned out ok. When I have children I'm going to try different methods and see what the child reacts to best.
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2 years ago
from my experience - the best method is spanking
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2 years ago
Whatever was closest to my parents I got hit with...belt, wire hangers, brooms, slippers, etc. I think fear had made me respect them more as I grew older. I turned out okay. Is that a safe assumption to make?
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2 years ago
My experience is pretty much the same. But everytime we got spanked, our parents follow it with some good lecturing. Those 2 combined taught us to respect them and know that they are in control. Kids nowadays just seem to think they are in control of everything.
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2 years ago
@SaM97 - My parents did the same thing. But the lecture from my dad was way worse than the spanking from my mom - he'd lecture me for a few days on the subject, then bring up old sh*t, then re-lecture me on those.

My dad only spanked me once - it was when my mom's arm got tired. She kept asking if I wanted more, and my smart ass kept saying yes. She got tired and turned it over to my dad.
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2 years ago
Your dad kept repeating his lecture over and over and your mom kept spanking you until she got too tired? You must've a very stubborn kid and very hard to discipline... I don't think my dad ever got to a point where his arm got tired. LoL.
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2 years ago
I had to keep a wooden plank hanging from the handle in my room - and this is what was used to spank me. Every time I go in and out of my room there it was dangling.
When I got in trouble the first thing was to go get the plank and bring it to my dad. Then stand up straight and look him in the eye while he lectures me (on and on and on). I never knew if at the end I would get a spanking or not, he would keep that a surprise - b/c apparently my deserving of a spanking was an accumulation of actions that finally tipped the scale (so I could do something very minor, but that would be the straw to break the camels back - and I'd get a spanking). However, if I ever didn't look him in the eye and stand straight the whole time - then for sure a spanking was coming at the end (I scientifically tested this theory).
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2 years ago
F171615,

Sounds like you already knew what was right or wrong by the fact that you had to bring the plank to your dad.

But having that plank in your room, wouldn't that haunt you for life?
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2 years ago
crimson,
i remember when i was little thinking that i'd try and hide the plank, that way i couldn't get a spanking - but never could summon up the courage to do it. so yeah, it definitely had a haunting effect on me. but i don't think it's been a negative haunting effect as i've grown, if that makes any sense.
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2 years ago
WOW great question... best story. mom spanks me. i tell her it didn't hurt. she tells dad. dad spanks me. that hurt. Parents are so PC these days, if they hit their kids, their kids might take them to court.
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2 years ago
PC?

But I have to agree, the law system is so abused.
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2 years ago
To tell you the truth, my mom hit harder than my dad. My dad just had the "stare" and a loud voice which terrified us as kids so we would behave. Looking back now, my dad had a tough exterior and was a big softy. Funny how that worked out.
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