Haven't you learned this lesson on The Hills!!!! I assume you meant to say "go out" not "do out." It is wrong. Unless you think you will marry him, it's not worth the turmoil you will experience. You will catch so much flack and be labeled so many nasty things by the rest of the other girls and it's just not worth. Friendship in the end is worth more than a few steamy kisses.
Steamy kisses are... Steamy! if you are honest and not mean, it will be tough on your friend... but hopefully she will understand. Life is short, go for what you want. If it's your best friend, don't talk to her ex at all. If it's steamy kisses, go for the ex. HOWEVER, if your friend is really cool, you can have the best of both worlds.
I cringe whenever people use the word "Life is short" then blah blah blah. Although life is indeed short (relatively speaking since humans are so greedy but that's a different topic all together), it does not mean you should do crazy stuff like jump out of an air plane or fight with sharks because for every risk you take, you end up increasing the likely hood of decreasing your life expectancy. Chew on that!
no worries! I totally agree. my take is, think about the risk, and if decision does not involve you being killed or incarcerated, then why not... try =)
Earlier today, I would say absolutely (it's wrong!). But after pondering, it really depends on the situation. Like slick said, it really depends if your friend is really cool.
Like if your best friend is in a happy serious relationship, it probably wouldn't create any conflict. It would be even better if your best friend is married.
How about you just wait until either of the two above scenarios happen. That's if you're really patient and he's really worth it (emotionally and/or physically).
well if you dont want a best friend anymore go for it. it doesnt matter what he/she sez its alway gonna be an ackward situation especially if they were in love with that person. there's a good chance that you might lose them both in the end.
Like if your best friend is in a happy serious relationship, it probably wouldn't create any conflict. It would be even better if your best friend is married.
How about you just wait until either of the two above scenarios happen. That's if you're really patient and he's really worth it (emotionally and/or physically).